A personal assistant between two homes

You never have to read that message again.

Neutrily puts a professional PA — Sam — between you and your co-parent. Every message is rewritten calm, delivered with proof, and kept on the record. The children’s logistics get through. The conflict doesn’t.

works over WhatsApp · nothing for your co-parent to install

n.the iPhone app is coming —
same calm, native push
Every message accounted for. Delivered, retrieved, and receipted — nothing disappears into silence.
Facts survive, word for word. Dates, times and amounts are never changed by the rewrite.
Both parents, same protections. Calm delivery, quiet hours and receipts — whoever pays.
A record you can stand behind. Tamper-evident logs and honest receipts, if you ever need them.

Three steps, and the temperature drops.

1

Message Sam, not each other

You and your co-parent each message Sam on WhatsApp — the same way you already message everyone else. No app to install, no new habits, nothing to learn.

You, to Sam — as blunt as you likeTell Jordan I’m not doing the 8am drop-off again, it makes Theo late for breakfast club every single time.
2

Sam rewrites it calm — you stay in control

Sam keeps every fact and drops every barb. You can always see exactly what was sent in your name, and originals stay safely on record if you ever want them.

What Sam sends
…I’m not doing the 8am drop-off again…
“Alex has said the 8:00 drop-off isn’t working — it’s making Theo late for breakfast club — and would like to agree an alternative.”
3

Delivered with proof

Messages arrive in order, on time, with receipts that hold up — when it was delivered, and when it was actually retrieved. The “I never got it” era ends here.

The record
sent 08:31 · delivered 08:31 · retrieved 08:47 · tap-verified
reply received 09:02 · relayed calm 09:03

Built to be fair to both of you.

the rule we build by

Sam is the PA for the situation — not for either parent

Whoever subscribes, Sam never takes a side. Your co-parent gets the same calm rewrites, the same receipts, the same quiet hours, and the same right to see what’s sent in their name. If a feature can’t be made fair to both homes, we don’t ship it.

why it matters

Neutrality is what makes it work

A message service one parent can weaponise gets abandoned by the other — and then nobody’s calmer. Neutrily only works because both of you can trust it. That’s not a promise on a page; it’s how the system is built, setting by setting.

One PA. Two homes. One simple price.

Everything Neutrily does, for both of you, on a single plan — your co-parent never pays and never has to. £9.99 a month, with a 14-day trial and no exit fuss.

no message left unaccounted for · originals on request · leave any month